We shouldn’t make the mistake of trying to protect our children’s innocence by maintaining their ignorance, writes Kasey Edwards. Photo: Stocksy “All my friends give boys blowjobs,” a Year 11 girl from a private girls’ high school tells me. When I ask if …
Many of us entertain the idea of having cybersex, perhaps through a service such as Skype, at some point in our lives but many of us are put off by the fact that we may not quite know how to go about it. As long as the correct precautions are taken and a bit of common sense is used, Skype-sex can actually be a lot of fun and can be a positive and entertaining experience. Sometimes, we may feel the desire for intimacy when it’s not available and Skype can provide a solution to this problem, as long as you have the necessary equipment.
Essentially, to carry out Skype-sex you will need a computer equipped with a webcam (either internal or external) and a microphone, although having a microphone isn’t completely necessary as you could always use the keyboard to type and communicate through instant messaging instead. Alternatively, you can choose to use the Skype mobile app on your phone or mobile device, by using a device that has a front facing camera.
Indeed, a microphone isn’t always necessary as some people may actually feel a little more comfortable communicating through instant messaging rather than speaking directly through microphone and this can be akin to text-sex (sexting), except that you also have visual stimulus which is a bonus. As long as both of you are using Skype, all calls (regardless of whether they are voice calls or video calls) are free.
You will also need the necessary Skype software and an account, which is fairly easy to set up and which is free. Once your account and device is set up, you may want to experiment with adjusting your display settings and perhaps the lighting in the room you are using. Men are very visual creatures when it comes to sex, so if you want to turn him on then you’re going to want to look your best and ensure that he can see you as clearly as possible.
Of course, when having Skype-sex, if you really want to turn him on then you’re going to need to be a little adventurous and use your imagination. As already mentioned, men are very visual when it comes to sex so you’re going to want to look hot and that requires showing some bare flesh and dressing provocatively, perhaps by wearing sexy lingerie or underwear which you could always use to tease him. Of course, once you’re both aroused, any stimulation is going to be done manually so you may also want to consider the possibility of using sex toys which is pretty much guaranteed to turn him on even more. Perhaps the most satisfying thing about Skype-sex is the fact that you can both openly discuss your wildest fantasies without too much embarrassment and without having to consent to anything you’re not comfortable with.
As pointed out at the beginning of the article, the most important thing about having Skype-sex is to use your common sense and to do it with someone you trust. One of the most relevant issues when it comes to the internet is privacy. The last thing you want is for someone to record your conversations or videos and then upload it to the internet for all to see. For this reason, it’s important not only to have Skype-sex with someone you trust but to also ensure that you are using a secure connection.
As long as you take the relevant security and privacy measures and use a bit of common sense, Skype-sex can be incredibly satisfying and can be a great way of openly discussing your fantasies and bringing you closer together whilst attaining sexual gratification.
Charlotteaction.org will show you how to make this new kind of sex satisfying.